It is time for me to write about
the financial status of our family in those days. I know unless I write in
detail about this aspect of our life, the reader may not be in a position to
appreciate the story in full.
In spite of our best efforts, we
have not been able to collect the details about our family tree. We heard from
certain sources that our grandfather was a rich man. But he was cheated by his
relatives and lost his entire wealth. As
per my father, he lost his father when he was quite young. He was brought up by
his maternal uncle. Two of his elder sisters had been married off to rich
families; but both of them and their husbands died when their children were
quite young. In fact one of the children was brought up by my father only. He
is no more now. He had always tried to payback my father and our family - you
may believe this - in cash and kind as well!
And we were quite pleased to accept! That was the type of situation our
family was placed in those days! My father also had a younger sister by name
Lakshmi, but she became an outcaste as a victim of circumstances. She lived in
our village with her family, but we were not even aware that she was our
father’s sister till we grew up. My father never recognized her as his sister!
It appears that my father became
a vagabond by the time he became a teenager. He was (un) fortunate not to have
any inherited property! This, coupled with the fact that his elder sisters had
been married off and younger became an outcaste, encouraged him to lead a
carefree life! He always disliked any type of encumbrances including holding of
property and cash! His life was always ‘liability based’ as against the normal
‘asset based’ way of life followed by all human beings! You may not believe
this, but the contents of the paragraphs below will prove it!
My father was always interested
in living his life for others! He was a very loyal worker for whomever he was
working. He was very fortunate to work for a big landlord of our village by name
Shingappaiah. Readers must be able to recall this gentleman’s name in the
episode dealing with the trapping of a tiger and sending the same to Mysore
Zoo. My father as a bachelor stayed in his house and worked for him. He was a
very benevolent person and always had the welfare of my father in his mind
considering his loyalty and hardworking nature. He identified my mother as a suitable bride
for him. My mother was the only child of her rich parents who lived in a joint
family. Both my grandfather and grandmother were well educated (in those day
standards) and had brought up my mother equally well.
Shingappaiah thought that my
father will inherit the property of his in-laws and live a happy married life.
The marriage took place with Shingappaiah as the Godfather of my father. But
alas! My father had no house to take his wife home! In fact he never thought
about it before marriage! He also had no regular source of income to maintain
his family. As his in-laws were living in a joint family, he could not live
with them as ‘Manealiya’! In any case his temperament would not have made him
accept such a position. Who else but his Godfather had to come to his rescue!
Indeed he did it and how nicely he did it!
Shingappaiah had a vast holding
of arecanut plantations. As he could not afford to cultivate the entire
holdings, he had given a major portion it to tenants for cultivation. There was
one such plot of 5 acres with a beautiful house in our village itself in a
place called ‘Sampige Kolalu’ (flute made of Sampige flowers). Shingappaiah got
it vacated and asked my father to stay there with his family and to cultivate
the holdings as a tenant. It was such a grand and genuine offer that my father
accepted it with all humility. It appeared for the time being that the
‘Gruhasthashrama’ of my father had a very good beginning.
By that time the son of my
father’s maternal uncle had a big family. But suddenly they found themselves
nowhere to go. The maternal uncle was no more. This family was quite aware of
the gullible nature of my father and his total aversion to hold assets and
responsibility. They found that one small house was lying vacant nearby in a
place called Adekhandi with hardly a half acre plot of arecanut plantation to
cultivate. They explained to my father how difficult it was for him to live in
a big house at Sampige Kolalu with only his wife and to cultivate 5 acres of
arecanut garden! The small house and half acre of arecanut plantation at
Adekhandi would be ideal and compact! They were suggesting this as only a favor
to my father in his best interest! They also voluntarily offered to accept
Sampige Kolalu property to help him out!
My father was quite pleased with
the sacrificial and kind nature of the said family! He was so mush convinced of
the whole affair that he immediately shifted to Adekhandi! My mother had
absolutely no role to play! Even her parents and Shingappaiah, the Godfather,
were kept in the dark! The whole transaction took place like an endorsement on
a negotiable instrument! The original owner of both the properties in question,
Shingappaiah himself, was kept uninformed! In fact the news came as post facto
information for him to approve.
When Shingappaiah heard this he
was dumbfounded. He could not fathom the unworldly nature of my great father! However
he approved the whole transaction as a fait accompli. He continued his
benevolence towards my father. Unfortunately the Shingappaiah couple had no
issues. He adopted the son of his own brother-in-law (his wife’s brother). But
by curse of fate, this boy died at a young age. Ultimately Shingappaiah brought
up the other two brothers of his adopted son and willed his whole property in
their names.
At his old age Shingappaiah was
attacked by cancer. In those days there was absolutely no medicine for cancer.
The treatments called radiotherapy and chemotherapy were unknown. In fact our
villagers used to call the disease ‘cancel’ quite appropriately even though it
was only on account of their ignorance! Being a rich man Shingappaiah was taken
to Vellore
hospital for treatment. My father accompanied him and took full care of him
almost as a male nurse. Shingappaiah fully appreciated the efforts and
dedication of him. So much so that ultimately when he came back from Vellore to spend his
final days at home, he called an assembly of village elders. In their presence
he made an open offer to my father. It amounted to issuing a blank cheque. My
father was asked to name any property of Shingappaiah which he would be glad to
transfer to him under a ‘danapathra’ (gift deed).
--To be continued--
2 comments:
Innocence appears to be a virtue that can prove to be dangerous. This appears to be the case with your late lamented father! It is almost impossible to see the likes of him any more!!
Thanks NN.
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